Urgent, or important?

I´ve wanted to write a blog post about this topic for a while, as I believe it´s important. But, because it´s not urgent, I´ve been pushing it out... Which is exactly the crux of the matter.

This is what´s called Eisenhower matrix, and if you´ve been into personal development stuff for some time, I´m sure you´ll be familiar with it already. It is featured in many books and articles on "time management" (which, in reality, should be called "priority management", because we can´t manage time as such; what we can manage is what we use time for).

It´s a simple proposal: first, acknowledge that we´re always going to have more things to do than time to do them; and therefore we need to prioritize. And second, evaluate the level of urgency and importance of each task, and based on that, decide what to do first, what to do next and what not to do.

  1. Tasks that are urgent and important require immediate action, so it makes sense that they´re the highest priority. This is a type of work we could categorize as "putting out fires": we must do it as soon as possible so that it can be finished on time, because if it´s not, there are clear negative consequences.
  2. The Important and not urgent tasks get us closer to our goals without having a specific deadline. This is related to strategic work, and the key here is to plan for it: schedule time on the calendar and dedicate time intentionally; otherwise, there´s a risk of postponing it for too long or never getting around to it.
  3. The urgent and not important ones are tasks that keep us busy but don´t give us much value in the sense that they don´t help us achieve our goals; they actually tend to get us off track. Paperwork, interruptions, requests from others... Ideally, we want to delegate or automate these as much as possible to avoid them being too time-consuming.
  4. And lastly, the not urgent and not important tasks are all those distractions we often fall in and get no value out of; they´re true "time sinks", and the best we can do is eliminate them. (Note: here, I´m referring to a million different ways we humans procrastinate and look for a hollow and superficial escape from reality. Not to be confused with taking time to truly rest, practice hobbies, connect with ourselves, look after our relationships, etc., which would fall into category number 2.)

What do you think of this system? If you´ve never used it, or if you haven´t used it for a while, I encourage you to find out how much time you typically spend in each of these quadrants, especially if you´re watching the days and months go by and you´re not making progress towards where you want to be. Do you spend all day putting out fires? Or performing tasks for others when they could be handled differently? Or maybe wasting time with distractions that don´t truly fulfil you?

I myself am currently in the process of adjusting a few things; I badly need it...

Just a reminder...

...That yes, January can feel a little hard sometimes, but please hang in there, keep going. We´re nearly there, over the two-thirds mark now.

Just one more push, even if you don´t feel like it. Keep doing what needs to be done to get a little bit closer to your goals every day, even if they still seem very far away. Step by step, bit by bit, you will start seeing the results. And you will realize it was worth all the effort.

Photo of a pocket 2025 diary, a pen and a fabric bag to store them both. The bag is white with a message printed on it in black letters: "All you need is FOCUS DARLING. Charuca"

(Now I get to see this reminder every day; thanks, Merche! It says: all you need is focus, darling..)

So, for those moments when all you want to do is give up and get into hibernation mode, here´s another handy reminder:

Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.

James Clear

Untranslatable words: declutter

Last week I mentioned I wanted to talk a bit more about this wonderful English word for which I´m not able to find an elegant translation into Spanish: declutter.

The other day, in the article, I referred to it as "hacer limpia", but there´s another way to call it that I like a lot more, and I hope the academics and purists of the Spanish language can forgive me because this word doesn´t officially exist: decluterear.

Online dictionary WordReference translates the verb declutter as "ordenar" or "poner orden " (meaning to tidy up), but in my opinion, that translation omits a big portion of the original meaning. Because even though it´s true that the end result is a tidier space, the key question here is not the what as much as the how.

To me, tidying up is about classifying things and moving them around so that they´re arranged differently, in a more aesthetic and logical way. But at the end of it, you have the same bunch of things as before. In contrast, decluterear consists of freeing up space by removing things, eliminating what in English is called clutter (which is how the verb was formed; de-clutter, as in remove clutter), and that I usually translate as morralla (the dictionary seems to more or less agree with me on this, as one of the meanings for the word morralla is "garbage", "trash" or "rubbish"... In short, whatever is no longer useful.

So then, decluterear (decluttering) is the art of setting ourselves free from what we don´t want and/or is no longer useful to us, to leave space for what we do want and find helpful. And this morralla, or clutter, is very often physical, but it can also be mental or emotional; in fact, decluttering our physical space has a liberating and renovating effect that goes way beyond, because, as it´s often the case, what happens around us is a reflection of what happens inside of us.

As I already mentioned, this year at home, we´ve accepted the challenge to declutter step by step, dedicating some time to it every day (or at least every week). The dictionary defines clutter as "desorden", "desastre" or "lío" (in other words, a mess), and once again, yes but no. The mess is a consequence of having too many things, too many trinkets that end up generating more and more mental noise and distractions. And this reminds me of two very cool phrases on this topic that I´d like to share with you all.

The first one is a minimalist saying (I´ll write more about minimalism in a future post). I came across it in an article by Joshua Becker, author of becoming minimalist, but I´m sure he wasn´t the first one to say it, nor will he be the last: LESS STUFF, LESS STRESS. I think this is a genius quote, so simple and so true.

The second one goes back to my period of "fighting against chaos", not long after moving to Ireland, when I was trying to get organized with cleaning the house and minding my little daughter... That´s when I came across a web page and email distribution list called FlyLady, which I found extremely helpful (if you´re curious,, look it up, the website is so old it looks abandoned, but the lady who created it is active in YouTube, and also has some presence on Instagram). Her approach goes directly to the key to all this, and it says: YOU CAN´T ORGANIZE CLUTTER, YOU CAN ONLY GET RID OF IT!

So, what about you? Do you spend your days "tidying up", moving things from one place to another and rearranging them, not daring to throw anything away? That was me for many years... Come on, have a good decluttering session; you´ll be amazed at how good it feels.

The year of...

2025 is starting! How are things going so far?

I like this image showing a blank notebook and a pencil, I think it's an excellent metaphor for this time of the year:

Photo of a pencil resting on an open blank notebook

What are your plans for the next twelve months? In this article I put forward two alternatives to the usual new year´s resolutions (which, being realistic, sound great but are destined never to be achieved). Today, I´m adding one more suggestion, something I heard last year but haven´t put into practice until now.

It's choosing a word as the theme for the year, something we want to focus on. This way, we create a common thread for our goals, using the word as a reminder and a source of motivation.

I´ve already chosen mine for 2025; would you like to hear it?

Drum roll...

For me, 2025 is the year of...

DECLUTTERING*

(*Explanatory note for the English version: there´s no direct Spanish translation for decluttering, which is a word I love in English and that I was sure I had included it in the list of untranslatables; apparently not, so I have a future article pending on that topic.)

So this is it! The theme for this year at our house, and not only for me; I´ve also recruited the girls. During 2024, for various reasons, we accumulated loads of things at home and didn´t get a chance to do any proper decluttering. Now is the time to free up space, and let the old go so that the new can come in.

What about you? What word do you choose? It can be anything that resonates with you and that you want to take as a priority this year. Let me know in a comment, and I´ll be delighted to read it.