Father's day was celebrated today in Spain, as always, coinciding with the festivity of Saint Joseph. And just by pure coincidence, today in Ireland what was celebrated was Mother's day, as it's the fourth Sunday of Lent.
The dates vary from country to country, but the intention is the same: honouring each of our parents in a special way, at least once a year. Thanking them for everything they've done for us, everything they've given us, starting with the gift of life.
It's interesting to see how our relationship with our parents evolves over time, we go through different stages... Let me paste here one of the many versions there are out there of how a child sees their dad at different ages:
- At age 4: My daddy can do anything.
- At age 7: My dad knows a lot, a whole lot.
- At age 8: My Father doesn`t know quite everything...
- At age 12: Oh, well, naturally Father doesn`t know that, either.
- At age 14: Father? Hopelessly old-fashioned.
- At age 21: Oh, that man is out-of-date. What did you expect?
- At age 25: He knows a little bit about it, but not much.
- At age 30: Maybe we ought to find out what Dad thinks.
- At age 35: A little patience. Let`s get Dad`s assessment before we do anything.
- At age 50: I wonder what Dad would have thought about that. He was pretty smart.
- At age 60: My dad knew absolutely everything!
- At age 65: I`d give anything if Dad were here so I could talk this over with him. I really miss that man.
What do you think? Do you agree? And we could say the same thing about mothers. If you want proof, you only need to ask your kids what they think of you, especially if they´re teenagers 🙂
By the way, while we´re on the topic of honouring our elders, let´s also take the opportunity to remember our parents´ parents, and the parents of their parents... What I mean to say is, let´s remember where we come from, and celebrate our ancestors, for it´s thanks to all of them that we are here today, even if there are parts of our family history that we don´t particularly like. They all did their best with the knowledge and resources that they had.
From here, I'd like to wish health and happiness to all fathers and mothers, grandfathers and grandmothers. And wish for us all not to wait until they´re gone to realize how much we can learn from them.