Languages

Greetings from Germany, where the girls and I are spending a few days with our cousins.

(Picture taken yesterday at Rotenburg's medieval quarters, really cool place.)

We're taking this opportunity to learn a little German, as we barely speak it, and, well, it's an odd feeling, Alicia was telling me about it a couple of days ago: we're so used to dominating the local language wherever we are (we're very fortunate to speak both English and Spanish, and you can travel to so many places with that) that not being able to communicate independently can be stressful and a bit overwhelming... Thanks Carlos, Loirdes, Carlos Yago, Alonso, Celia and Anna for making it so easy for us 🙂

As you probably know already, language and languages are topics that I find super interesting. One day I'll elaborate more on this, and I'll tell you the difference between the two Spanish words we use for «language(s)», but for the moment, here are a few quotes I personally like and fully agree with:

A different language is a different vision of life.

Federico Fellini

Language is the road map of a culture. It tells you where its people come from and where they are going.

Rita Mae Brown

Learning another language is not only learning different words for the same things, but learning another way to think about tthings.

Flor Lewis

You can never understand one language until you understand at least two.

Geoffrey willans

Y una de mis favoritas:

The limits of my language mean the limits of my world.

Ludwig Wittgenstein

What things do you know how to say in other languages? And how have the limits of your world changed as a result of that knowledge?

Existing, living, choosing

During this month and next, I´m going to be brief when writing my posts, as both you and me have more interesting things to do than looking at a screen...

Following on from last week´s topic, this week I´ve been able to walk the walk and stay a bit more relaxed in my day-to-day, though that doesn´t mean I´ve been just sitting on my hands doing nothing, on the contrary! It´s been a very productive week.

But it´s true that I´ve been a lot more selective when deciding what to do (and more importantly, what not to do) with my time and energy at each moment. This has allowed me, on the one hand, to avoid overloading myself, and on the other hand, to be able to savour each moment a little more, even when doing things like pottering around the house, working, or running errands, nothing out of the ordinary.

I think this is a good moment to show you this little picture I found one day in a restaurant in Bray, displaying the quote below:

Photo of a framed drawing and quote: "To live is the rarest thing. Most people exist in the world. Most people exist, that is all, that is all." - Oscar Wilde.

To live is the rarest thing. Most people exist in the world. Most people exist, that is all, that is all.

Oscar Wilde

So then, what´s the difference between existing and living? As I see it, living is existing "on purpose", with openness and curiosity, and also with an intentionality that comes from knowing what we value most in life, and acting accordingly.

But for that, we need to carve out time. And how do we carve out time? By being selective:

Besides the noble art of getting things done, there is the noble art of leaving things undone.
The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of non-essentials.

Lin Yutang – The importance of living

What are your thoughts on this? What can you eliminate this week to give yourself some more space?

Time to rest

Very often, we associate the summer with holidays, and holidays with resting. But have you ever experienced it not being like that, or rather, the opposite happening?

These past few weeks have shown me that I´m not less busy during the summer; in fact, I´m busier. And when the time comes for us to go on holiday, in a couple of weeks, there will be a lot of movement as well, as it often happens when one travels. So much so that I can visualise myself coming back at the end and saying, like Mafalda in that old comic strip, that I need a holiday to recover from my holiday...

I´m not sure whether I´ve mentioned this in the blog or not, but I feel like I´ve been waiting to get peace and quiet for months, maybe even years, and the peace and quiet are not arriving.

And now I know that they´re not going to appear as if by magic.

Because peace and quiet don´t just materialise one day. You have to attract them. Create them. And above all, you have to leave space for them in your calendar.

Photo of the sea under a blue sky with a few white clouds

(Picture of the sea, which is luckily just about a forty-minute drive away from my house, affording me the luxury of visiting every now and then without having to be on holidays.)

It is true that in these summer months, with the good weather (Ireland has had exceptional weather this week), slowing down is a little bit easier, even if it´s just because the heat doesn´t leave us any other choice... Summer is a terrific opportunity for us to dedicate time and attention to an activity that´s fundamental for human beings: RESTING..

Resting physically and mentally. Recovering your strength. Recharging your batteries.

But what if we still have work to do? Well, on the one hand, we can rethink where each task falls within the scales of urgency and importance, to see if we can lighten the load a little bit (I´m sure the answer is yes).

On the other hand, as far as possible, we can adopt a more relaxed attitude, closer to "holiday mode", alleviating any unnecessary pressure and starting to move towards a more sustainable rythm..

Speaking of this, here´s a quote by Gregorio Marañón that I found really interesting:

Working without hurry is the greatest rest for an organism.

That is, it´s not about doing absolutely nothing (at least, not all the time), but about performing our tasks more calmly, without stress. Because, as John Steinbeck said:

The art of resting is part of the art of working.

And this last one, I´m not sure who said it (the quote is everywhere, but the author is not clear):

Sometimes, the most productive thing you can do is rest.

How about you? How are you resting this summer?

Ignite your light

This morning, I heard a reference to a Bible passage I was not familiar with, or I should say, I no longer remembered. Later on, I saw that it´s part of the Sermon on the Mount, a very popular reading from the Gospel. So I´m guessing I probably heard it many times during Mass, although perhaps this particular passage tends to go unnoticed right after the Beatitudes.

Here´s what it says:

Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead, they put it on its stand, so it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. (Matthew 5, 15-16).

This passage is a reminder that each of us have something to contribute to this life, and that we shouldn´t hide that contribution of ours because it may serve as help and guidance to other people..

Drawing of a yellow sun against an orange background, with yellow dotted lines representing rays spreading in multiple directions

(Apologies for the photo being a bit blurry, but I love this happy little radiant sun drawing I saw the other day.)

The problem is that very often we find it hard to recognise our own value, and we tend not to believe that whatever we do or do not do will make any difference... If this is your case, I invite you to sit down with pen and paper and make a list of actions you have taken that have had a positive impact on other people, regardless of how big or small. In all those moments, your light was shining for them.

But beware, I´m not talking about boasting or announcing ourselves too much, forcing the act of showing to others the goodness in us and in the things we do... The light of a lamp is not imposing or invading; it simply flows, quietly illuminating its surroundings.

Similarly, each of us can let our contribution get out into the world, according to our talents and our own style, and humbly make it available to whoever can benefit from it. Without making ourselves bigger or smaller. Without inflating or diminishing ourselves. Without blocking our light. Being brave enough to shine.

Part of my contribution, for example, is this blog. What´s yours?