Progress

It´s been a while since I last shared a quote on the blog... Google showed me this one today as I opened a new browser tab; I really liked it:

Of all the things that can boost emotions, motivation, and perceptions during a workday, the single most important is making progress in meaningful work.

Teresa Amabile

What do you think of this? Do you agree? I would add that this happens not only at work, but in every aspect of life. Feeling that we´re making progress in something that matters to us, even if it´s very slowly, is fundamental for us to stay motivated and actively engaged in any project or activity..

In fact, the best kind of progress we can make in the majority of cases is precisely that, slow and steady, partially because time and circumstances often don´t give us room for anything else, but also because the most effective way to achieve long-lasting change (be it individually or as a team, or an organisation) is by progressively introducing minor changes, instead of trying to change too many things at once.

Having said that, it is true that on some occasions we seem to make a tremendous amount of progress in one go, like when there´s a major scientific breakthrough. But as we all know, major scientific breakthroughs don´t happen overnight: there´s a lot of silent work happening in the background that we don´t get to see or appreciate from the outside. And similarly for ourselves, sometimes it´s hard for us to realize how much progress we´ve made already, until one day we suddenly look back and see how far we´ve come.

Page of a colourful book, with a pink and purple striped background. and a bright yellow star-like shape with the message "Tiny bits of progress add up to big results"

(Page from the book titled Be kind, be cool, be you! from Nikki Miles, a collection of inspirational phrases accompanied by colourful illustrations. In this case, the message reads "Tiny bits of progress add up to big results".)

Now, over to you: what´s the project or activity you care about the most at the moment? And what are you already doing, or are going to do, to ensure you keep making progress?

Gratitude day

According to some sources, today, September 21st, is world gratitude day. And I say according to some sources because sometimes these "world" and "international" days depend on who you´re talking to... For example, the "International Book Day" we Spaniards celebrate on April 23rd doesn´t coincide with the "World Book Day" that´s celebrated in some of the English-speaking countries, which falls on the first Thursday in March.

And from reading the internet, I gather that Gratitude Day, which is today, should not be confused with Than-You-Day, which is January 11th... I´m not a hundred per cent sure of the difference between the two, but, to me, gratitude is more about appreciating all the good things we have, as well as feeling happy and generally thankful for them, while "thank you" refers to a much more tangible action, something we say to specific people because of the positive impact they´ve had on our lives.

In any case, the way I see it is that any day is a good day for us to take a moment, do a bit of reflection and be thankful (both in general and in particular) for what we have and what happens to us in this life.

Outside view of the Hall of the Ambassadors, in the Alhambra, in Granada, Spain

(Photo from our visit to the Alhambra, in Granada, one of the places we were fortunate enough to go and see this year.)

Gratitude is one of the recurring topics in this blog. I believe it´s a fundamental habit; it allows us to make more progress in our lives while reducing suffering along the way. Here are a few articles that can give you ideas on how to approach it:

So, what are you thankful for today?

Let´s get to work

Well, this is it, folks: we´re in September now, and it´s time to get to work.

It´s time to get back to the routine (not monotony), or rather, to create a new routine, as every year is different, even if it only changes a little (and in our case, this year, it´s changing a lot, let´s see how it goes).

It´s also a good moment to turn over a new leaf and start a project. Many take advantage of the back-to-school season and sign up for a gym, or begin to learn something new; advertising agencies are very familiar with this process... (By the way, I stopped watching conventional TV a long time ago, but I remember that back in the day, September used to be packed with ads for weekly or monthly fascicle collectables. Are they still in fashion? Or maybe they became a thing of the past? Would people still buy them?)

A few days ago, I was listening to ads on the radio, and this comic strip from Mafalda popped into my head:

Mafalda comic strip, by Quino - Mafalda watching ads on TV

Here´s the translation: there are four frames:

  • Mafalda switches off her TV set (¡click!) while saying: ¡"Use", "Buy", "Drink", "Eat", "Try"!… ¡EEEEEEEH!… What do they think we are?
  • She sits back down and frowns, thinking: And what are we?
  • Silently, she switches the TV on again (¡click!), and sits back down.
  • Watching TV again, she thinks: Damn them, they know that we still don´t know.

What do you think? What I love about Mafalda´s comic strips, and all of Quino´s work in general, is that their themes and messages are still very relevant in today´s world, over forty or fifty years after their publication. Times change, of course, and there are a few details that reveal the passing of time, but generally speaking, they have aged surprisingly well.

Or maybe it´s not that surprising, given that deep down, humans don´t really change that much, and there are so many repeating patterns... In the same way Mafalda and her friends found it difficult to believe their parents grew up without television, our kids now find it hard to imagine how we grew up without the internet or mobile phones, and the next generation will struggle to conceive life without artificial intelligence.

What Quino was able to do brilliantly is to capture human nature in a humorous way, with all its paradoxes and contradictions. With reflections that appear to be simple but turn out to be really powerful. One day, I´ll bring you more of his comic strips so that we can reflect on them together.

But let´s get back to today´s topic: why did I choose this particular strip? Because if we don´t know who we are or what we want, we let ourselves be influenced a lot more easily by other people´s interests. And that, eventually, takes its toll.

If we don´t set and define our own goals, we end up working for the goals of others. It´s that simple.

Seneca explained it this way:

There is no favourable wind for the sailor who doesn’t know where to go

And Gary Lew said it this way (I have this one in a fridge magnet):

This is your world. Shape it, or someone else will.

What about you? How would you like to shape your world, starting now in September? What do you want to achieve this school year?

Blogging forever

I recently learned that today, August 31st, is World Blog Day (not to be confused with International Blogger´s Day, which apparently happens on August 5th).

And I´m truly happy that there´s a set day to intentionally celebrate blogs, as one of my many identities, for years now, is that of a blogger, and it´s one I´m very proud of.

Coincidentally, earlier this week, I found this book by Pedro Mañas at home, and read it: The secret life of Rebecca Paradise. The protagonist makes up a whole new identity for herself through her blog (or her glob, as she calls it). I really liked this book, and it comes with a message, so I recommend it to all boys and girls.

Cover of a book for kids in Spanish, "The secret life of Rebecca Paradise"

Next month it will be twenty years since I arrived in Ireland (OMG, twenty years!) and started my first blog, which was also called Binarywords and was written entirely in Spanish. Back then, blogging was in fashion: it was something relatively new, and some of my friends also had their own blogs... For me personally, it was great to get to reflect on my day-to-day in a written format; it really helped me through those years of change and growth (and chaos!), and it´s still a massive help today. I consider it invaluable as a tool. But the best part was that, through blogging, I discovered a creative outlet I didn´t even know was available to me: we could say that I found my voice.

Nowadays, the internet has evolved greatly, and content publication formats have changed, but the human need to express oneself and launch one´s ideas into the world is still the same, so new ways of blogging have been invented, as well as new platforms. The mainstream trend nowadays is microblogging, that is, short format, often using videos, reels, etc., to make the information more attractive and easier to digest. I must admit that I´m still old-fashioned when it comes to this: I prefer my blank page every week, to be able to write to my heart´s content, and then let the readers find what I wrote, be it because they were looking for the content or just stumbled upon it.

By the way, speaking about platforms, I´m currently trying to integrate this WordPress blog with my Substack account, so that articles get published automatically, as they already do in LinkedIn, Facebook and Instagram. I´m afraid the integration is going to have to be manual, but still, I think I´ll be able to publish through that medium as well. I´ll keep you posted.

In the meantime, if you feel like exploring more than two hundred articles already written here in the glob, the easiest way is heading to the archive, you´ll find them all there. Thanks for reading me!

A little walk (or two)

Still on the topic of making the most of our days before the summer ends and school starts again, this weekend we did quite a lot of walking; yesterday, on the North side, in Malahide village and around the castle grounds, and today, on the South side, in Glendalough and Bray. Thanks, Cristina, Isabel and Irene!

Photo of a landscape with a hill on the left, trees on the right and grass fields in the middle, with a round stone tower rising in a distant field, against a cloudy sky. At the bottom there´s a water stream flanked by pebbles and rocks, and surrouded by plants

(Landscape picture from this morning, with the ruins of Glendalough monastery in the distance.)

The truth is that Ireland, when the weather is good (and even if it´s drizzling a bit, right girls?), is a fantastic place for walking, whether it´s trekking along one of the many tourist routes available or simply strolling in a local park. There are cool things to see everywhere, many of them blue and green.

The most outstanding colour we saw, of course, was green; no wonder we live in the Emerald Isle. It was a stark contrast with our homeland, Extremadura, which gets so dry during the summer (and this summer in particular, unfortunately, not only dry but also burnt). The blue hasn´t been very intense these days, with the sky as cloudy as it was most of the time, but we enjoyed it all regardless, coming across lakes and water streams, a little waterfall, and to top it all off, the sea. The more serious note was provided by the stone grey in castles and monasteries, and the touch of colour and joy, by the many flowers adorning the streets, the houses and the fields along the way.

As I said, fantastic place. Also because walking has a therapeutic effect, enhancing our physical, mental and emotional wellbeing.

I have to admit that I generally find it difficult to leave the house, especially during the winter, and also that I´m not a huge fan of nature and adventure. But once I´m out, I find that I love walking; it makes me feel so much better (which probably happens to everyone). So, knowing what I know, I look for strategies that help me get out even if I don´t feel like it, because I know that it will be good for me, and that I will be thankful for it in the future.

Even Seneca said it, several centuries ago:

We must go for walks out of doors, so that the mind can be strengthened and invigorated by a clear sky and plenty of fresh air.

This school year, my goal is to keep a habit of going out for a walk every now and then. How about you? Are you in?

Making the most of my days

I´ve been back home in Ireland for a full week now, after the holidays; in a few more days, the girls will be here as well. It´s time to start pre-preparing to get back to school...

There´s something that tends to happen to me every year around this time; thankfully, it no longer takes me by surprise: I arrive in Dublin with renewed energy and a mental list of things I want to get done, and I get off to a great start. The first day is the best; it´s fantastic because the to-do list is so long that it doesn´t matter where I start. I always accomplish a lot, and feel that I´m being super productive.

But then, as days go by, I realise that time is faster at passing than I am at crossing things off the list. It starts to become apparent that I´m not going to have enough time to do "everything" (especially when that "everything" keeps growing, as I come up with more things to add to the list), and that´s when I start to feel stressed out.

Now, add that to the fact that the end of the summer is approaching, so I feel like I want to rest and enjoy a little bit more before getting back to the routine (going to see blue and green, for example, as my friend Bea would say), and the list gets even longer... Plus, ¡the weather is so nice these days! Usually, August here in Ireland is not great, but this year is the exception, and we need to make the most of it.

So in summary, I´m running out of time, and there are still pending tasks. But I feel happy regardless. Why? For several reasons:

  • Because I was able to cross off a few pending things that were weighing me down, and I feel I´m making progress.
  • Because these ups and downs no longer affect me that much, as I know they´re natural in me, so I no longer beat myself up for not being able to achieve the impossible task of finishing an endless list.
  • And above all, because I´ve been redefining my concepts of "being productive" and "making the most of time", expanding them to include important things that were not included before.

Leisure activities can also be productive, when balanced appropriately with work. Time spent resting is time well spent. And a chat with friends or a walk in the park are well worth investing an afternoon.

(Photo taken the other day in St. Stephen´s Green)

How about you? How are you "making the most" of these days?

Closed for vacation (II)

A little over a year ago (thirteen months, to be exact), I wrote a blog post with the title Closed for vacation, from the same place where I am right now: my happy place (thanks a million, Javi and Fátima, for welcoming us these days).

In that article, I wrote about the many changes I was going through at the time, and the new phase that was beginning for me and my family.

A year (and a month) later, again I feel it´s been a hectic year, full of changes, and with even more changes on the way, some of them chosen by us and being planned for, and some that I´m sure will come along to surprise us.

Photo of a swimming pool at sunset

(I´m a year behind with my photos... This one is from last summer, and it still doesn´t do justice to the gorgeous sunsets in this place).

Next school year is going to be interesting, with two university students at home (we´re so excited about you joining us, Isabel, we will sorely miss you, Quique), and a few other things I´ll tell you about in due course. For the moment, we still have the month of August to enjoy.

Not surprisingly, I found a quote that I think fits perfectly with today´s topic. I heard or read somewhere that we don´t come to this life to be happy, but to solve problems, and I completely agree, though I also think that through those problems we solve and those challenges we overcome we acquire the ability to be happy, no matter our circumstances.

The measure of success is not whether you have a tough problem to deal with,
but whether it is the same problem you had last year.

John Foster Dulles

Languages

Greetings from Germany, where the girls and I are spending a few days with our cousins.

(Picture taken yesterday at Rotenburg's medieval quarters, really cool place.)

We're taking this opportunity to learn a little German, as we barely speak it, and, well, it's an odd feeling, Alicia was telling me about it a couple of days ago: we're so used to dominating the local language wherever we are (we're very fortunate to speak both English and Spanish, and you can travel to so many places with that) that not being able to communicate independently can be stressful and a bit overwhelming... Thanks Carlos, Loirdes, Carlos Yago, Alonso, Celia and Anna for making it so easy for us 🙂

As you probably know already, language and languages are topics that I find super interesting. One day I'll elaborate more on this, and I'll tell you the difference between the two Spanish words we use for «language(s)», but for the moment, here are a few quotes I personally like and fully agree with:

A different language is a different vision of life.

Federico Fellini

Language is the road map of a culture. It tells you where its people come from and where they are going.

Rita Mae Brown

Learning another language is not only learning different words for the same things, but learning another way to think about tthings.

Flor Lewis

You can never understand one language until you understand at least two.

Geoffrey willans

Y una de mis favoritas:

The limits of my language mean the limits of my world.

Ludwig Wittgenstein

What things do you know how to say in other languages? And how have the limits of your world changed as a result of that knowledge?

Time to rest

Very often, we associate the summer with holidays, and holidays with resting. But have you ever experienced it not being like that, or rather, the opposite happening?

These past few weeks have shown me that I´m not less busy during the summer; in fact, I´m busier. And when the time comes for us to go on holiday, in a couple of weeks, there will be a lot of movement as well, as it often happens when one travels. So much so that I can visualise myself coming back at the end and saying, like Mafalda in that old comic strip, that I need a holiday to recover from my holiday...

I´m not sure whether I´ve mentioned this in the blog or not, but I feel like I´ve been waiting to get peace and quiet for months, maybe even years, and the peace and quiet are not arriving.

And now I know that they´re not going to appear as if by magic.

Because peace and quiet don´t just materialise one day. You have to attract them. Create them. And above all, you have to leave space for them in your calendar.

Photo of the sea under a blue sky with a few white clouds

(Picture of the sea, which is luckily just about a forty-minute drive away from my house, affording me the luxury of visiting every now and then without having to be on holidays.)

It is true that in these summer months, with the good weather (Ireland has had exceptional weather this week), slowing down is a little bit easier, even if it´s just because the heat doesn´t leave us any other choice... Summer is a terrific opportunity for us to dedicate time and attention to an activity that´s fundamental for human beings: RESTING..

Resting physically and mentally. Recovering your strength. Recharging your batteries.

But what if we still have work to do? Well, on the one hand, we can rethink where each task falls within the scales of urgency and importance, to see if we can lighten the load a little bit (I´m sure the answer is yes).

On the other hand, as far as possible, we can adopt a more relaxed attitude, closer to "holiday mode", alleviating any unnecessary pressure and starting to move towards a more sustainable rythm..

Speaking of this, here´s a quote by Gregorio Marañón that I found really interesting:

Working without hurry is the greatest rest for an organism.

That is, it´s not about doing absolutely nothing (at least, not all the time), but about performing our tasks more calmly, without stress. Because, as John Steinbeck said:

The art of resting is part of the art of working.

And this last one, I´m not sure who said it (the quote is everywhere, but the author is not clear):

Sometimes, the most productive thing you can do is rest.

How about you? How are you resting this summer?

Ignite your light

This morning, I heard a reference to a Bible passage I was not familiar with, or I should say, I no longer remembered. Later on, I saw that it´s part of the Sermon on the Mount, a very popular reading from the Gospel. So I´m guessing I probably heard it many times during Mass, although perhaps this particular passage tends to go unnoticed right after the Beatitudes.

Here´s what it says:

Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead, they put it on its stand, so it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. (Matthew 5, 15-16).

This passage is a reminder that each of us have something to contribute to this life, and that we shouldn´t hide that contribution of ours because it may serve as help and guidance to other people..

Drawing of a yellow sun against an orange background, with yellow dotted lines representing rays spreading in multiple directions

(Apologies for the photo being a bit blurry, but I love this happy little radiant sun drawing I saw the other day.)

The problem is that very often we find it hard to recognise our own value, and we tend not to believe that whatever we do or do not do will make any difference... If this is your case, I invite you to sit down with pen and paper and make a list of actions you have taken that have had a positive impact on other people, regardless of how big or small. In all those moments, your light was shining for them.

But beware, I´m not talking about boasting or announcing ourselves too much, forcing the act of showing to others the goodness in us and in the things we do... The light of a lamp is not imposing or invading; it simply flows, quietly illuminating its surroundings.

Similarly, each of us can let our contribution get out into the world, according to our talents and our own style, and humbly make it available to whoever can benefit from it. Without making ourselves bigger or smaller. Without inflating or diminishing ourselves. Without blocking our light. Being brave enough to shine.

Part of my contribution, for example, is this blog. What´s yours?